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well that put me in my place then.
like i said, the moderators and administrators had a hard time over this.

we all feel for him for being abused, he needs help and i hope he gets it.

for gods sake you cant please everyone. i for one feel bloody awful now all this happened. but i amongst other find it hard to trust people and at the end of the day heCOULD have been a risk

jin

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he might have been a risk - there's no real way to know - to me it's all crystal ball gazing. i hadn't seen any posts that were offensive but i don't read every post and i'm not vulnerable in that respect. it's happened, he's been banned so i guess we just say our piece and move on. there's no point arguing or blaming.

i do have to reiterate that i (and probably a lot of people) have unhealthy urges that could hurt other people physically and mentally but i battle them and usually win