Please, everyone, let's be respectful. This has been an important discussion. If it has to be closed it will be because too many people, not only on one side of the issue, are not able to either express their views with respect, or leave it alone.

Someone asked why LostSon and his wife are still here. I think that I can answer that much. LostSon did not violate any community guidelines. A decision was made by the owner of this site, after considering the impact on the community and the perspectives of members, moderators, and administrators. There is no way that all of us will ever agree on this, either way. But LostSon did nothing wrong here and is not being punished. As far as I know (and hope), we all wish that he will be able to find support and healing somewhere. There are members here who want to offer him support. For that reason, he has been allowed to stay and say his goodbyes and exchange information with the friends that he has made.

Rapunzel