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Originally Posted by Readytostop
Oh that is very possible but i dont want to have a T who makes off the cuff remarks....how will I know which are sincere and which arent?
Also isnt there a saying about things said in jest are usually meant to be truth....
I spent my whole life having to interpret comments, intentions and motives of a dysfunctional family.... I want a T who says what they mean and mean what they say...and i am not a serious stick in the mud....I dont think I've had but one or two sessions in the last 3 years were my Ts and I didnt laugh....
I dont think this is the right T for me. I will give some thought to what to do but not starting therapy again for atleast a couple of months.
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I agree that it is possible your T may have just been making an off the cuff remark and might not have had much deep meaning behind it. But given the nature of therapy, I don't it's appropriate in the second session to make such off the cuff remarks.