Its really good that you are questioning all of this. It tells me that you have the common sense enough to know something isn't right about how our society pushes sex from every angle, from TV, to ads, music, everything.

It is NOT healthy this way.

Protect yourself from this mind manipulation all around you and find pride within yourself to wait for the right time with the right partner. And when that time does come , keep the sanctity of that personal and close to your heart. Its nobody's business who you have sex with or if you are having it at all.

Love yourself enough to not participate in this mentality society has become. You will end up in a much happier place if you don't fall into the pressure and just find your way on your own.

It is vital to wait for the right time and the right person. Otherwise, it has huge repercussions on the spirit, mind and overall outlook on life.