my girl friend had/is an affair at her job place, not with a co-worker but someone who would go there and meet (sorry no details, its digusting) my problem is with all the freedom of this part-time job i as you have read i dont trust her. am i right to insist that she quit her job. there is no issue of money. i feel that if she wants to regain my trust its my way or the highway.the other guy dosent really her.besides he cant manage to keep himself out of jail/prison, pay his own bills or off hard drugs.hell after reading what i just wrote, why am i even considering any of this in the first place.yep its mess .maybe i should just be my mean self call the cops on him call her boss destroy lives and move on (i do so like the taste of revenge).