Amy, I hope you have the people who overstepped the boundaries real your emails and "hear" what you are saying... When my mother had terminal cancer I was one of her caretakers. I was there during the work week so my stepdad could work. It was such an a wonderful opportunity for me. One of the things she taught me was that she didn't wanted to have people always sad around her. When she was in pain she wanted somebody there with her to hold her hand and even try to joke when she was awake. It helped he get through it. She knew she was sick and didn't need people to remind her of it and make her feel worse than she already was. I wish I could be near you...you are such an amazing person.

My best friend's name is also Amy. Every time I read your posts it reminds me of her. You both are so compassionate and have a wonderful way with words.

I hope you had a good day and was able to enjoy some of the "little" things in life.