Thank you so much for responding. I am so glad I'm not alone. My husband has lost it at me too, mainly before he understood that I wasn't well, but even still, I push him to the edge at times. I will try what you suggested, which I have tried before, too - I just find it so hard to hold my tongue, I just want to keep pushing and pushing and pushing when I'm like that.. It's like something inside has broken and I can't turn the switch to shut it off. I will try and remember this next time, I really want to do what I can - at least try.