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Old May 07, 2014, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by mulan View Post
It feels like I am the one that is wrong. I'm not worried about when my time will comes.
It's just that I'm private about my intimacy, I don't belong to this world, and every single conversation of almost anyone around me seems to end in this topic. And is by sharing this kind of intimacy that make people close with each other. Sometimes it feels like if a person don't want to share his feelings the others perceive the person as a cold one. In fact most of the friendships I know gravitate around talking about guys. I don't mind to hear other girls talk about it.
But I realy think this topic is overshared in away that pulls me apart from any group or any friendship. I enjoy talking about other stuff. It's like that I have to share something on the love, sexual topic all the time to realy become part of a group.
Why would you say you're wrong? I, for one, don't like curse words. Yes, people use them all around me both in speech and in print, yes, it's impossible to get away from it, but I don't like it! When I'm with my friends - yes, sometimes they curse and yes, I have to tolerate it. I have to tolerate car emissions in the city too, I have to tolerate the taste of plastic in my bottled water - so does it make me wrong that I don't like it? No.