I shouldn't go over unless he knows I am going to. The key should not get used too freely.

Food is a weapon. I do set bounderies and have to reset them or I will lose out. That is just the way it is with me.

All of the bf relationships argued about meals with me, argued about what they called real, argued about what was wrong and guessed wrong about important things I felt and intentions. I am bewithered and down functioning to survive. I am not letting anyone f with me. They use food as a weapon. Then they tell you what your intentions are, they tell you that you feel this way and that way, after they feed you. It is the furtheresst thing from the truth.