I know its hard when you don't know or aren't sure of people's intentions. Fear of the unknown is powerful. It doesn't matter what it's about--how much does the person know, what information am I missing, what isn't this person telling me?! It's horrible, I know! It conjures up everything in our mind and let's imagination and mind go wild. Do what your heart tells you--go with your instincts. Filing a police report for harrassment that he won't leave you alone is an idea, but I really think you would need to accept that. You could always call the police (non-emergency number) and ask them for suggestions, just to get their opinion on the subject. It would be up to you what to do after hearing them. Try to be comfortable, but remember, you have to risk emotions to get better. I'll be thinking of you...{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hamstergirl}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}