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Originally Posted by herpoorsoul
I'm sorry to say, it sounds like she really can't handle her issues. Note I said her. Really immature of her considering she's supposed to be clear, direct and professional. If you want follow your doc's referral; if they're at a center...if it were me I wouldn't be comfortable continuing to go there. "/ But that's up to you. If you're fine with it, you should report her.
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Thank you for your hugs
I have no idea what I should do, they both worked at the college clinic - but T doesn't work there anymore, hence why doc knows her. It is interesting - as doc sent an e-mail to her too, so at least I think it is her duty of care to respond - even if it is to say she doesn't feel comfortable continuing the sessions. In one of her last messages, she told me to follow doc's advice - so that is what I am doing! I am trying to help both of us - but as my doc said, it's about two people with feelings that are very strong, not just the one (me). I know and understand that I shouldn't have e-mailed/messaged as much as I did - but she also needs to know that she didn't implement boundaries to begin with until it became an issue. It got so confusing - and apparently I am difficult to follow!
I am not my T's psychologist - and I don't want to be running after her. I am already in love with her, so I don't need any more feeling topped onto that
