Okay, I'm going to say it. I'm not a fan of Mother's Day. It's just the 2nd Sunday in May, and another reason for cards, flowers and outpouring of commercialism.

Birthdays are more important to me. You become a Mom on the birthday of your child. You go from one version of yourself to something bigger. You're given the gift of someone who needs your love, understanding and nurturing till the end of your days, IF you are lucky.

Personally, I've failed as a parent and so I've been told countless times by my only daughter. I've failed as a daughter bc my mom has completely forgotten my birthday 3 times in my lifetime so far. If the tables were turned, she would be mortified and extremely hurt if I ever forgot hers.

Perhaps it's because I've never been celebrated for being a good mom who sacrificed more than was needed in an effort to be loved.
Perhaps it's because my birth day as the first child has never been a celebration for my family; it's been a burden for as long as I can recall in my memories.

Happy Sunday to those who get revered and doted on, lavished with gifts, flowers and cards. Happy Sunday to the rest of us, who are hoping for a beautiful sunny Spring day and not expecting much more than that.