[QUOTE=Aventurine;3737215]I tried to tell them what was going on in my life and I was alone and sad and not one of them called me or visited me. I prayed desperately to God to send someone or I might fall away. No one came. I stopped going to church and still, nothing. I found I was more accepted by my "secular" friends and went and joined them instead.QUOTE]

This is so unfortunate, but quite common. I've learned that just because someone calls themselves a Christian, it doesn't mean they'll act like one. I've found in the past that some "church people" can be the most insensitive and judgmental people of all. I too have found more acceptance from "secular" friends (from all faiths). It appears God answered your prayer, but just not in the way you hoped. BTW-God doesn't care if you go to church or not; It's what's in your heart that counts.