it hurts here because just like IRL ppl in the online world can be obtuse, unthoughtful or downright snarly when push comes to shove.

some misunderstandings are merely that....things not understood fully and mistakenly taken another way than intended

other instances are directly related to ppl's illnesses/diseases/disorders...no excuse but often some explanation

then there are those who just stomp around life IRL, here, and anywhere any ol' damn way they please w/o regard to their effect on other beings

takes all kinds to help show us the full spectrum of human behaviour---the good, the bad, the ugly and the amazing

we're sad that when you're in need of support due to changing health you're feeling least supported. that's stinky. ((((pattyneedssomelovinsupportnow))))

we're fairly certain that any tallying of karmic points will show your plus column overflowing as the multitudes of kind ways in which you live your life ripple out to reach so many more than you might imagine.......and they're all passing along that good energy such that it will return to you many times over