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Originally Posted by ace333
also as a side note to feeling left out about getting married both our families and friends are constantly asking when he and i are getting married...it gets harder and harder for me to answer and it makes me sad when they ask, and we always just look at each other and brush it off and nothing more is said, it can be frustrating at times, cuz in some ways i feel like im wasting my time, but i do love him and want to be with him, im not going to leave just because i can't have a wedding im not that egotistical
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do not succumb to outside pressures, you have to live with this man every day..they don't. simply politely answer..when we are ready you'll be the first to know. it is rude and insensitive for them to pressure you into such a serious decision..take your time, there is no rush. you want to get married when the BOTH of you are ready, not before.
if you guys are pressured int a wedding and things don't work out, you will seriously regret it..it is you guys' decision and yours alone, no one else's.
stay strong and be mature about this and you'll be glad you did.
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