Hi Blueshade. I am wondering the same question as previous poster. Have you tried to talk to your husband about how you feel. I also agree in these days of "technology".....facebook.... it is easy to get involved and forget about the real world around you. If your husband does not appear to want to make the time, maybe you should email him. I know it sounds strange but if he is on the computer all the time maybe he would see it. I would not go into your feelings to much in the email but say hey remember me... We need to talk!!!
As far as others being distant I am sorry but I guess I do not know enough about the situation to advise you. But maybe you could try to meet some other people who do have time for your friendship! Good Luck