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Another Life...you might check out some other postings here that sound a lot like what you are experiencing. There is a difference between lust, romantic love, and love attachment with a partner. Lust and sometimes romantic love do not last very long...if you make life decisions based on those feelings it does not always turn out well..you would hope it turns into a loving attachment/partnership
You are still pretty young so it's understandable that you may not be aware of what is going on. Also, this other lady is making your brain and other parts really happy right now - I'm sure you had this for you wife at one point.
To keep love and romance great - you must learn out how to keep it interesting.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
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