He has a lot going on in his life and what he has been through in his life. I'm not sure what you are dealing with. But he has to take care of himself and his child 1st. His actions will show you what he wants...I would not pressure him. It's hard because it sound like you really like him. Find out a way to chill yourself out. He is still going to have a son and a job even if he gets rid of one of the jobs - you can see if it will work for you.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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