As a guy...lol I'm not really sure how we experience the body either. I mean, there's a degree of an..."ideal," I guess, but it's just sorta there. I'm not really able to speak much on that, I'm afraid. I don't think it's calling us "ugly" though...just a substantial difference in emphasis.

Well, I do see your complaints. I'd tell you in instances where you mention yourself to not worry...there's, in my experience, a great societal pressure that people, especially women, are "supposed" to look a certain way. That pressure is crap. Beauty, real beauty, isn't just a matter of "A is beautiful. B-Z are not." What is beautiful is a range of things, a factor of many parts, not just "A." So, even if you do have "man hands," that doesn't mean there's something wrong.

The other parts though...I see your points, but I can't follow the logic as to how you drew your conclusions (lol minus the bit on vaginas, to a small degree...if I started bleeding, I'd probably have a mild stroke. Never understood how one just gets used to that, but I have a *major* aversion to blood. ). Now that I see your conclusions, how did you come to them?