I agree with everyone else, just sit down and talk to him and explain how you feel. If he is losing his sex drive tell him to go get some drugs. You are his wife and he still should feel the need and want to pleasure you. If my wife came to me and wanted to do some kinky stuff like BDSM and various other stuff i'd be for it. I am bi-sexual so she will wear a strap-on or rim me and do other things so you know in a relationship you gotta be open to change and explore those feelings.
I am also a Sexual Abuse Survivor and I love when my wife dominate me with the strap-on! Sorry if that is TMI.
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