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Originally Posted by newtus
yea i did that. couldnt find reviews on this one but found him online. maybe i should google his name. my concern really is that i may not like him cuz hes so far and a male therapist. im really attached to this old therapist. ugh i shouldve just went to that appointment today and just said sorry or something
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Honestly I think the fact that he is a male will be good for you...you have a much better relationship with your dad than your mom so if you develop transference it is likely to be less volatile. The fact that you want to go back to this woman after what she did to you sort of reminds me of the fact that you keep talking to your mom when she is being a jerk to you. The thing with the T though is she is nothing to you....you deserve better....plus this dude said something like 40 years of experience right...so he's way old don't worry about an attraction...