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Originally Posted by DylanP
Many claim it is in the common top 10 sexual fantasies of women. Just always found it a curious fantasy/fetish, who it can be a fantasy but they never really want it to happen because it is a traumatic experience. I wonder what makes the fantasy occur, perhaps the fact that a man wants the female at any cost, perhaps the woman likes the idea of a stranger lusting her or maybe it is just women with extreme sexual neglect that have such a thought. Many women also orgasm during rape, yet this is of course not the fault of the woman nor does it mean she is feeling pleasured, it is just a natural reaction of the human body to climax with penetration no matter how ugly or violent the male is. Any women want to add to this? Maybe you've had this rape fantasy or perhaps you are a rape victim and find that any woman who has such thoughts are sick?
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Some people who have suffered abuse, especially repeatedly, actually feel the need to repeat it even when they are safe.
I've heard that a lot of times people who want to be dominated or raped are people who in their daily lives carry a lot of responsibility. After all day being in charge in the bedroom it's most pleasurable for them to get away from that.
My friend is really into bdsm and also has rape fantasies. Her fantasies are like someone breaking in and raping her, but she doesn't want it to actually happen though she's fine with role play.
Personally I used to fantasize about rape because I felt guilty for having a sex drive and felt that was the only way I could have sex guilt free.
Now I have actually been raped but I don't really think it's a disgusting fantasy. There are many variations and many reasons for it and you can't really help what you like.
Also for me I'm sometimes an emotional masochist and I would fantasize about rape (and nonsexual things too) because I feel like I deserve to be worse off than I am.
Any fantasies I might have now are pretty much ruined by the reality so that's over but if someone else likes it I'm okay.