(((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))
I know how hard it is to feel needy, but out of ANYONE i think that this one relationship it is OKAY to be feeling this way. It is very normal for people to develop attachments to those that they confide in, and while maybe it doesn't feel right because it is on a professional level, it really is okay and it will just take some time. Try and talk to your T about it .. you don't have to tell them everything, but they can help you, and they won't tell you your being dumb or silly ... i know its hard, but you can do it, and you will be okay.
Take good care of yourself,
Jacq