Thread: Relationship advice - please
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Old May 09, 2014, 06:42 AM
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Originally Posted by wyss View Post
Thank you. And you are correct, he will always need to take care of himself and his child first - and that comes from having a job. I understand that completely. I just do not understand how his words say one thing "I want to be with you" and his actions are completely the opposite.
"I want to be with you" is good...and now he will have to figure out how.
Let him let go of that other job and have time to think about how to add you. His actions will prove what he wants and can manage regarding a relationship. Words will keep you hanging on. Him.. not having enough time now or later may be an issue for you getting your needs met.
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