I am new to the forum so please bear with me if I say something that might be inappropriate. I also am very ignorant about bipolar and some of the other disorders mentioned. My boyfriend of 3 years is the reason I am here. From the little bit I have read here it sounds like he has some of these. I feel bad that I haven't been more proactive in researching this sooner in the relationship. A lot of times I believed him when he said I was the problem. Lately, I suppose I am wising up and I don't fall for that so much anymore although I can't tell him that.