I posted recently about a sexless relationship and wanting to leave it. A close friend from high school had offered me a large sum of money to help me find an apartment and get on my feet again. It was a hugely generous offer. Unfortunately, my friend came to his senses and withdrew it.

I was all ready to move out and move on, and now I'm back to square one.

Sex four times in a year, and no other physical affection in this relationship. We've talked many times about this since June 2013 and he refuses to change (well, he PROMISES to change and just doesn't).

Now my bf has made a demand of his own. He wants us to start going out to his favorite bar again on Thursday nights. The reason I stopped going is the couple we sit with (his close friends). I get to watch them canoodle all night while my boyfriend sits two feet away from me and talks to other people. It's a NIGHTMARE being there.

Thanks for letting me vent yet AGAIN. I'm seriously considering packing up all my stuff today while he's at work. Of course, then I'd be homeless. Sigh.