I'm the type of person people call to when they have problems etc.I am a people pleaser. I grew up taught not to express my feelings and just do what i'm told etc.I'm to scared to say no to people. The few times i have helped people over and over again and then when i can't. I get called the B word and stuff.I'm told by old friends that i'm to nice at times. But i don't want people to hate me or to get in a argument. But i'm tired of being used by people. Been dealing with health issues for a year and half now and at times don't feel well. When i tell some folks I can't talk long because i'm not feeling well or don't answer the phone all the time. Because i'm napping when i'm not feeling good.I'm told i'm selfish and uncaring.But i need my rest etc.I guess people think since i helped them out once and i try to be friendly and caring. That i'm a pusher over and that i can be used.I burnt out on always being the nice one.