Though mine is nonspecific in relation to the gender, I myself hate to be touched & if someone caught me off guard I've been known to hit. I don't want to be held at night by my husband, makes me feel restrained. And I love on my children, but, it is in limited doses. I definitely have an issue with personal space. I just want a barrier. My friends are aware & when I'm having a crisis and sit before them weeping they have to fight the urge to bug me. I have panic attacks if I'm in public and it's too crowded. I just cannot bear sharing my personal space with anyone. I realize it's not exactly the issue you're struggling with, but I hope maybe knowing you're not alone may at least give you some comfort. I wish you well and will gladly listen if you need an ear.