I been in therapy with the new t for 3 months now, she is very open genuine and warm, she talks about our relationship alot, and how she wants it to be, and checks on our relationship quite often, about being open and honest, she says how attuned she is to me, she wants me to be very present with my feelings as she is with hers.

How do I know whether she is wanting transference to occur or whether its ocurring already, not in a maternal way or erotic way, just plain transference, can anyone help me with this please.