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Old May 10, 2014, 09:55 PM
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In your previous posts, GenCat, you state how you talked to your T just a few days ago, you went dancing with her less than two weeks ago and reading from your posts, there has been contact between you and her since then. So, judging from your posts, it seems you can reach out to her in-between sessions and have done so. You state how she is very close to you and has gone out of your way to support you and help you, even if some things seem a little questionable in her approach.
So, why do you suddenly think she is too busy for you and doesn't care much? Why don't you reach out to her and ask her for another appointment?

I sense that somehow there is a little power game going on.. But I may be wrong. A few days ago you said: " I just don't want to see her for awhile" "It's a love-hate relationship between us". I don't remember just now what you post after that was about, but from what I gather, you are yourself not quite sure of this therapeutic relationship. You want her to want you but you also don't want her at all.
You want to be so close with her, yet you don't feel comfortable with everything she does, and sometimes you question her motives.

I feel it's really important to figure out, what it is you really want and then communicate it to your T. It's really not her job to keep asking you to come back.
But of course, you want her to because that would show you that she cares, right?

I think it might be an idea to contact her and ask her for a session and work through these confusing feelings and emotions you have towards her. It feels like there is a lot to work on.

I hope you'll find an agreement with her and that you find the courage to ask her for another appointment.
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