Was this the first time you lost your temper with her watino, or the first time you felt let down by her since you been working with her.

Could you have gone through her supervisor, instead of using intimidation and fear or threatning malpractice, Im not saying that, you shouldnt seek these things, but not by fear or intimidation. This seems to have been building up for a while, not just suddenly that day. You say you half stood up , then punched the table, thats menacing behavior , here in the usa, if i am behind a desk, and someone is angry and i am sitting down and they do this , half stand up, raise thier voice and then punch the table, of course that is threatning behavior. I would have got up, opened the door, and asked you to leave. Not because I am a wimp, but because I am not going to tolorate, the behavior that I am trying to change in my clients. How do I know what your next step was going to be.

Murphys law, you were able to control yourself, what if you werent, you dont know this, this behavior can escalate from 0 to 60 , then what, is a therapist then expected to say, oh i should expect this from my client, from a hospital bed.