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"I'm 28, all my friends are either getting married, married already, or married/divorced with kids. I feel like a loser around them. And hey, I am not saying that I am perfect, or that I'm easy-going, or that I'm so incredibly desirable. I just ask for honesty, that's all. ".....
Those other friends will have there own problems - and may even envy your freedom.
Your smarter for this...remember this when it comes to the next guy. I'm not sure this guy was trying to be a jerk...maybe he let his mind wonder about you...and in reality it would be hard to have a long distance relationship..hopefully he learned something too.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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