Without having been in your sessions, it is impossible for us to make a judgement call on what your therapist did or didn't do. Perhaps she was telling you and you weren't listening to understand? That happens to me - mine will say something one week and then the next week I realize that she'd already said it but I wasn't in a place to accept it at the time. We can't know her tone, we can't know her motives and we can't know her process.

What we CAN know is that you acknowledged that you used force to intimidate another person. You were wrong. You must understand. You were bullying her and that is never acceptable.

This sounds exactly like an abusive spouse trying to justify the fact that he punched a table to intimidate his wife because she deserved it. Nobody deserves it.

Your actions were grossly irresponsible. The fact that you are still trying to justify it days later tells me that she was 100% correct to not see you again.

You need to acknowledge your anger issue with a new therapist that has the resources to protect themselves from your outburst were it to escalate.

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