one thing that bothers me the most is going into someone's thread, when they are in pain, and writing disruptive posts.

can anyone see any support, christianity, love, caring, in that???? i can't.

it makes me, at times, long for the "do not post to me" feature that is at other forums. but there's too much of a down side to that.

besides,i'm pretty hopeful that we're intuitive enough here to know when we're being nasty.

thank you again, KD, for bringing this up once more. xoxo pat