I hope the pdoc visit helps. I agree with the previous posters and I'm sorry you're having such a tough go of it right now. Thinking of bringing my S.O. along to an appointment soon, too. We tried couple's counseling once and I think it would have been very beneficial had we continued (or found a therapist we liked)! It's really challenging how partners respond sometimes. Mine made a comment the other day that was supposed to be helpful but it really annoyed me. Partner: "Should I be writing down your agitation level right now for your pdoc?" It really rubbed me the wrong way, though I know no ill will was meant--it's just, my partner has never written anything down before for my pdoc and it just came across as a little passive aggressive!

I hope he backs off this week and that the pdoc visit is helpful.