I believe everything happens for a reason, and that there are lessons to be learned from it, which we really don't realize until we're on the other side of things. I'm sorry you're going through all this turmoil. But look at the timing: it's happening at a time when you're strong enough to handle it.

Just remember, all your family's problems don't belong to you alone. You are not solely responsible for their happiness, nor should you be. Take time to drink deeply of the well of wisdom; allow your friends (and us!) to help you where they (we) can. We'll be here for you.