Thanks StbGuy. Seeing that picture of her was quite an accident. I didn't go looking for it. I saw one of those "people you may know" links that FB would always throw in my face. This guy had come up several times so I thought "how the hell do I know this person?". So I clicked. There she was, kissing this guy on the cheek in one picture and smiling from ear to ear in another. My stomach did a few dozen cartwheels. I'm shaking right now as I type this. Only afterwards did I find out he was gay and she was visiting him and his husband at the restaurant. But like I said, too late.

And Mulan, I'm sorry about hijacking your thread. It seemed relevant at the time.