Hi Gordon, I'm 45 so I guess unfortunately that means I'm qualified to answer your question LOL. Personally if I found out my husband to whom I've married to for 21yrs was for whatever reason unable to carry on our physical side of the relationship I would be ok with that. I may mourne the loss of something that has been part of our life together, but I feel I am a time in life where I am able to find contentment and caring from other means.

It wouldnt be the end of my world. I find as we mature life takes on more precious meaning. I often ask myself if i was lying in a coffin as the lid was being closed, what regrets would I have about my life. To me it would be to have made the most of every moment! No matter what the situation.