I'm in my 30s too, my mid-30s. I loved someone for years but things ended, not my choice. I did not meet anyone else. I mean I've met people, but nothing came out of it, no mutual feelings. I live with my family and do what I have to do for them, taking care of Grandma etc. Will I ever meet the right one? Who the hell knows. I'm pretty much mainly concerned with sustaining myself financially.

Online dating doesn't appeal to me. I tried to make myself do it, didn't work.