Hi Sunrise.......great that you are implementing goals and specific timelines imo, I cannot see to do that at all.

As for the divorce, I think your decision is a good one and perhaps you can sit for a bit on one end of the see saw to get that goal resolved. After that, are you able to continue therapy (even less frequently) if you want to and move to the other side of the see saw to delve into what issues remain? This may provide a less hurried feeling, knowing you have 'time' for the other stuff. It's hard to work on all at once and taking some stuff off the plate can alleviate your anxiety.....while knowing you don't have to terminate after a specific time.