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Originally Posted by yumi
Be thankful that he is not contacting you! However, keep your guard up, because he just might surprise you when you are least expecting it.
Hopefully he is hooked up with someone else and he is now someone else's problem,. I feel for that woman tho! May she have strength to leave him.
I not only see NPD in your description , but I also see sociopathic traits as well. This is very, very dangerous and my advice for you is to let go completely. Count your lucky stars he is leaving you alone and not attempting to use that "switch" on you. I am very well aware of this tactic, that is why I say keep your guard up because he may very well show up again in your life unexpectedly.
I would change your phone number and change your email accounts. Make it nearly impossible for him to get a hold of you.
Guard yourself . You are lucky to have gotten away as soon as you did.
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To be honest I'm finding the fact that he hasn't tried to contact me as slightly damaging to my self esteem. I keep thinking if even he doesn't want to keep me around I must be worthless.
I know it's not true and he certainly has found someone else to attach to (it was my jealousy of that person that finally enabled me to walk away) but there's another part of me that still really doubts myself and that he was really a problem.
And it certainly wasn't this 'easy' last time. Last time I had the promising to change message within 20 mins so he has at least tried to keep me around at one point.
I guess I'm just really bad at this not blaming myself business. lol
I know I'm going to get through this eventually and I'd like to thank you all for your support. It has helped.
