Cherry,

This sounds kinda scary. And your "mum" (sorry the word sounds funny to us Americans) is a bit of a twit. Without trying to sound creepy - I saw the picture on your profile and if that is you - you are certainly not fat. In fact you are a lovely person just as you are..... I hope someday YOU can see that.

And as for being 'useless'. Well, I OWN that label (see my name).

Hope you are feeling better. Please, do not let other peoples words harm you.... I pray that you will take care of yourself. You deserve to feel happy with who you are. Just as you are.

Gods blessings to you.