Hi Gordon, I'm a 44 yo woman, and I'm there right now. I am so not interested in sex with my husband, I feel terrible for him, but having sex is just annoying. I have been like this for several years. We still have sex sometimes but I avoid it; and he knows I'm just going along with it to make him happy. This bothers him a great deal.

We have some serious issues because of this. He thinks I don't love him; but I do.

Can't believe I'm posting this,

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