Unfortunately for today's children, people seem to think it is better to divorce than YOU being unhappy. POOR YOU!!! YOU made the choice of the other parent, YOU made the choice to have children and YOU can now SUCK IT UP and be happy for those children. Happiness can be a choice you make every day, unless you have a mental illness, in which case I understand medications have come a long way.

If you choose to have THREE children with someone, you OWE it to that someone to stay and help raise them. He doesn't have to fight with her and he SAYS the sex is great, so what's the problem??? Midlife crisis is what I say and I think he needs to GET OVER IT and CHOOSE his wife and family and CHOOSE to be happy. It can be done, REALLY it can.