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Originally Posted by hannabee
Unfortunately for today's children, people seem to think it is better to divorce than YOU being unhappy. POOR YOU!!! YOU made the choice of the other parent, YOU made the choice to have children and YOU can now SUCK IT UP and be happy for those children. Happiness can be a choice you make every day, unless you have a mental illness, in which case I understand medications have come a long way.
If you choose to have THREE children with someone, you OWE it to that someone to stay and help raise them. He doesn't have to fight with her and he SAYS the sex is great, so what's the problem??? Midlife crisis is what I say and I think he needs to GET OVER IT and CHOOSE his wife and family and CHOOSE to be happy. It can be done, REALLY it can.
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No. It can't be done. Happiness can be faked but not created out of nothing. If I didn't care I wouldn't be there still. I don't badmouth my wife and I stay active in the relationship but it doesn't help. I understand many people can't get past the cheating part of it but realistically you don't need two parents to be happy. I was raised by a single mother and despite this situation I turned out quite well if I do say so myself.
I wonder if you would say that same thing to a woman who is being beaten by her husband? What if my wife wanted to leave because I have cheated? What if 2 people just decide its for the best? You can't paint every situation with the same brush. That's the very basis of racism and prejudice and apathy. You are welcome to your opinion of course but brow beating someone to your way of thinking is never helpful.