The last few weeks T has helped me out immensely in regards to my children. She and I have been on the phone a lot and sent MANY emails back and forth. Especially in regards to my daughters recently diagnosed depression. I blamed myself and thought about a lot of the worst case scenarios and was frustrated that I didn't see it months ago. She helped me figure out how to proceed with getting help and talking to kiddo about some very difficult topics. So I bought her a thank you card and a gift card to her favorite restaurant.

I got an email this morning stating that the cards was lovely but she was trying to figure out the gift. I explained why I did it and such and that I am sorry if it was a boundary issue or that it made her uncomfortable as that was in no way my intention. Also that being mother's day was probably not the best time either but since mother's day is just another day for not something I celebrate because of the pain it causes I didn't event think about it.....oh man....why did I have to cause so many issues??