For me, I don't care about their political label. Heck, I don't care about my political label. I prefer to care about each issue separately. While T and I don't have to agree on every issue, some of them are deal breakers for me. I think the biggest one would be sexuality and gender issues (excluding feminism because that has such a broad range of definitions) and separation of church and state/keeping religion COMPLETELY out of therapy. Those issues are complete deal breakers for me in therapy. If T is against the LGBT community or poo poos porn or brings up Jesus at all, I'm 1000% out.