Hey girl, Keep your head up Break-ups can be really tough and no one truly knows how you feel but you. You don't "choose" to be sad, it happens, especially in a break-up when you loose someone you love very much, and the "getting over it" part?? I wish i could tell you that it is easy, it is very tough and sometimes I don't think you truly do get over some people. Sure, U move on, and it gets a little easier everyday, but on the other hand, there will always be the memories u had w/ your significant other, and you may think about him and wonder what he is doing and if he is happy, but as long as you can pick yourself up and dust yourself off and move onto the next, you will be ok. Trust me, I have been through it many times, some hurt ALOT more than others, but im a survivor of the relationship thing and I think U will be Alright You just have to stay strong and remember, U will heal when U are ready to, no one else can do that for you. Stay Strong! ((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) If you need to talk, e-mail me! Im here for ya! <3, Mamazangel Pittbullam7373@yahoo.com