I believe He can see into our hearts and knows us better than anyone. He knows our motives in all we do. I mean no disrespect to anyone beliefs.
Through history marriage beliefs have changed, different cultures have different ceremonies. I have to ask what exactly do you mean by married? Married by man's law in the U.S. of A. I have to admit I don't know the bible real well, but did God state what a marriage is in his eyes. I'm mostly just curious.