(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((inny)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

what ive learnt from my own experience is that i could never and still cant rely on my family
nor any one elses
they just never got me

but i found friends that even thou they didnt fully understand stick by me and when i need something they support me in it cos they know i know whats best for me

if ur bf can support u without full explanation then use him and not cleaner lady

and remember u have us here as support
also use T pdoc gp

and if u need to go to er go u dont need a mother to make that choice ur an adult as soidhonia says and u decide whats best for u